Activity Guide by Age: From 0 to 12 Years
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Choosing the right activity for your child can feel overwhelming — especially when the options seem endless. Is swimming at 6 months too early? When should they start a team sport? What if your 10-year-old wants to try everything at once?
The truth is that every age group has different needs, abilities, and interests. What thrills a 2-year-old may bore an 8-year-old, and what overwhelms a 4-year-old may be perfect at 7. This guide walks you through each stage of your child's development, helping you choose activities that respect their natural rhythm of growth.
0 to 1 Year: Discovering the World Through the Senses
At this stage, your baby is building the foundations for everything that comes next. Every touch, sound, and movement is a learning experience.
Developmental milestones:
- Gradual control of head, torso, and limbs
- Sensory development (sight, hearing, touch)
- First social interactions (smiles, babbling)
- Early fine motor skills (grasping, passing objects between hands)
Recommended activities:
- Baby swimming: Water provides an extraordinary environment for motor development and strengthening the bond between parent and child. Baby swimming can start from 4-6 months.
- Baby music classes: Sessions with songs, rhythms, and simple instruments stimulate hearing, language, and coordination.
- Sensory play: Activities with textures, colours, and sounds that fuel natural curiosity.
What to look for in a class: Small groups, warm and safe environment, active parent participation, instructors trained in infant development.
1 to 2 Years: Movement and First Words
The world opens up once children start walking. Everything is there to be explored, touched, and tested.
Developmental milestones:
- First steps and running
- Vocabulary explosion
- Parallel play (playing alongside other children, not yet with them)
- Growing autonomy and willfulness
Recommended activities:
- Free movement sessions: Motor skill classes with obstacles, tunnels, ramps, and balls. The goal is exploration, not rules.
- Creative play: Finger painting, play dough, simple collages — anything that lets them experiment with materials.
- Socialisation groups: Structured spaces where toddlers interact with peers under guidance, such as play workshops.
What to look for in a class: Flexibility (at this age, plans change every minute), safe and non-toxic materials, respect for each child's individual pace.
2 to 4 Years: The Golden Age of Imagination
This is the phase of make-believe, boundless energy, and endless curiosity. Children are ready for more structured activities, but they still need plenty of freedom.
Developmental milestones:
- More refined gross motor coordination (jumping, climbing, pedalling)
- Language development and storytelling ability
- Beginning of cooperative play
- Understanding of simple rules
Recommended activities:
- Children's gymnastics: Builds strength, balance, flexibility, and body confidence. An excellent foundation for any future sport.
- Creative dance: Combines movement, music, and expression. Ideal for children who love moving to music.
- Visual arts: Workshops with painting, modelling, and building that nurture creativity and fine motor skills.
- Multi-sport classes: Sessions that introduce basic concepts from different sports without competition.
What to look for in a class: A playful approach (learning through play, not training), age-appropriate groupings, patient and encouraging instructors.
4 to 6 Years: Ready for a Challenge
Starting preschool and school brings a new maturity. Children begin to enjoy challenges, belonging to a group, and showing what they can do.
Developmental milestones:
- Ability to follow more complex instructions
- Beginning of logical thinking
- Desire for belonging and friendship
- Greater emotional control
Recommended activities:
- Team sports (introduction): Football, basketball, or handball in adapted formats, focused on fun and fundamental skills.
- Musical instruments: From age 4-5, many children are ready to start piano, violin, or percussion.
- Martial arts: Judo, karate, or taekwondo teach discipline, respect, and self-control — valuable life skills.
- Structured swimming: Transition from parent-and-child sessions to independent lessons. An essential safety skill.
What to look for in a class: Balance between structure and fun, positive reinforcement, focus on individual progress rather than comparison with others.
6 to 9 Years: Exploring and Finding Talents
This is the exploration phase. Children have the physical and mental capacity to try a wide variety of activities and begin discovering their true passions.
Developmental milestones:
- Logical thinking and strategic ability
- Greater physical endurance and coordination
- Sense of fairness and fair play
- Capacity for self-criticism (note: this can be a challenge)
Recommended activities:
- Competitive sports: If the child is interested, they can begin healthy competition — athletics, swimming, tennis.
- STEM and coding: Robotics, experimental science, programming — for the curious minds who love understanding how things work.
- Performing arts: Theatre, singing, dance in specific styles. Excellent for building confidence and expression.
- Outdoor and water sports: Surfing, sailing, climbing — activities that combine physical challenge with nature.
What to look for in a class: Instructors who reward effort rather than just results, opportunities to try before committing, a balance between challenge and enjoyment.
9 to 12 Years: Deepening and Growing
Pre-teens are forming their identity. The activities they choose become part of who they are — and that is a powerful thing.
Developmental milestones:
- Abstract and critical thinking
- Desire for autonomy and independence
- Growing peer influence
- Capacity for long-term commitment
Recommended activities:
- Sport specialisation: If a child has practised a sport for years and loves it, this may be the time to train more seriously — always with balance.
- Leadership and volunteering: Scouting programmes, community projects, or leadership roles within teams and groups.
- Adventure sports: Climbing, mountain biking, surfing, kayaking — activities that test limits and build resilience.
- Advanced arts and technology: Music production, design, programming, photography — skills that can become lifelong passions.
What to look for in a class: Instructors who treat children with respect and challenge them, a healthy environment without excessive pressure, opportunities to participate in events or competitions.
How to Choose: 5 Principles for Any Age
Regardless of age group, five principles should guide your decision:
- Follow your child's interest, not yours. Your dream of having a football star may not be their dream — and that is perfectly fine.
- Prioritise fun. A child who is having fun will want to continue. A child who is forced will resist.
- Don't overload the schedule. Free time is essential for development. One or two structured activities per week is enough for most ages.
- Allow time to adjust. Most children need 4 to 6 sessions to feel comfortable. Don't give up after one difficult class.
- Watch for signals. If your child is consistently unhappy, reluctant, or anxious, listen to them. Changing activities is not failure — it is adjustment.
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